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Marriage Actually - An honest look at marriage

Archive for the ‘Marriage Books’ Category

November 7th, 2007

Marriage Fitness 6

Back from the brief hiatus to continue our review of Marriage Fitness. We’re up to Step #3 - Move from Me to We. No summary equation this time, but the crux of the step is making choices to grow together.
I think this step will fly in the face of our modern individualism. Exercises include letting […]

By Bald Man -- 3 comments

October 22nd, 2007

Marriage Fitness 5

Let’s continue our series on Mort Fertel’s Marriage Fitness and look at Step #2 - Give Presence. Step #2 can be summarized with a simple equation much like Step #1.
Love = Knowing
Here Fertel focuses on express love by learning our spouse and communicating that knowledge to our spouse through gift giving. In yet another pun, […]

By Bald Man -- 0 comments

October 17th, 2007

Marriage Fitness 4

Let’s begin looking at each the of the Marriage Fitness steps in depth, starting with Step #1 - Put Love First. If I may, let me summarize the chapter with an equation:
Love = Time
The foundation of Fertel’s approach isn’t based on communication skills or conflict resolution tips, its based on the proactive expression of love […]

By Bald Man -- 11 comments

October 8th, 2007

Marriage Fitness 3

Let’s continue stepping our way through Marriage Fitness. See, that was a pun, because Marriage Fitness is centers on “The MarriageMax® 4-Step Plan.” (Those are the jokes people; get used to it.) This is an example of the self-help hype that I found off-putting. Anyway, here’s the Plan is brief; we’ll chat individually about each […]

By Bald Man -- 0 comments

October 3rd, 2007

Marriage Fitness 2

Alternative Title: “It’s Me, Not You”

Let’s continue our look into Marriage Fitness with this bit, which gets at the heart of Fertel’s approach:
Most books about marriage teach conflict-resolution and communication skills. But just as curing an illness doesn’t make you physically fit, solving your problems will not create love in your life. And neither will […]

By Bald Man -- 0 comments

September 27th, 2007

Marriage Fitness 1

I recently completed a book on marriage, and it’s time to start blogging through it. The book, Marriage Fitness: 4 Steps to Building & Maintaining Phenomenal Love by Mort Fertel, was recommended by Joanne back when I put out a call for interesting books on the subject of marriage. If you have your own book […]

By Bald Man -- 2 comments