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Just a Quickie…

by Marye Audet on August 6th, 2008

I was just leaving to go buy cats…yep cats…Promised Kyrie a kitten, and I know I will not get out of the shelter without at least one cat doomed to lethal injection tomorrow unless I take it…

Anyway… I saw this story and it piqued my interest enough to read it because it seems to address some of what we have been talking about: How to Have Toe Curling Sex..it isn’t what you might think….no porn, no naked bodies, no erotic conversations… but I was especially interested in the part where he says:

People concentrate on one of three things in sex’

• physical sensation
• playing out fantasy
• engaging your partner

I am thinking about what I read there, and inclined to agree.  I think that people who are so-so about sex are focused on only the first, whereas the deepest and best experiences are a combination of the three.

What do you think?

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